Spend Less and Still Have a Great Wedding

When i was a kid, i always looked up on grown up people. The thought of having the freedom to manage your own money make me wanted to grow up hastily. Looking back in time, I still remember me following dad withdrawing money from the ATM machine. We, me and my sister/brother will always watch in great admiration those ATM machine doing its wonder producing money whenever asked for. We thought it's cool to always get the money from the ATM machine whenever we want to. It never occurred to us that we have to earn the money.

Now that i've grown up, secured a job, experts of all-money-wasting-activities, pengguna credit cards sejati, become acquainted with most of the financial term - hire-purchase, loan, overdraft, et al. I started to see life from different perspective. Especially when the wedding bell is already ding-dong-ing. I realized that money come with responsilities. The more you earn the bigger your responsibilites, besar periuk, besar la kerak nya, cheewah. And i learn that being a shoppaholics, big spender, money-wasting-activities, retail therapy, or whatever you can call it, is a dead end route, lead you to nowhere. Well i agree that maybe, some of the time we need to award ourself with all those things, but we have to limit ourself. I've been thinking, what if, with all these economic turmoil - merger, bankruptcy, downsizing, layoff, outsourcing, suddenly i lost my job, how long can i sustain my current lifestyle with the saving that i have now?

Thereafter, i stopped buying all those unnecessary, i started to differentiate between needs and desire, keperluan dan kehendak, do i sound like Venga now?
And i've drafted my long-term financial goals which will lead to my ultimate goals to achieve financial freedom!! Praying hard that i'll stick to this one. Hopefully it'll not be the same as the previous one which had happily went to the rubbish bin.

Haha, started to feel bored and annoyed with my non-stop nag? Well, actually i wanted to share something on wedding budget which i found on the net. Who says you cannot have a great wedding while spending less?

Pay In Cash – Whenever possible, pay for your wedding expenses in cash. Do not worry about paying for the food: most hotels and restaurants accept the balance payments in cash after the event. Eg. Angpau money given by guests. If you have to use credit, have every wedding expenses recorded on a spreadsheet and monitor its total closely to ensure that you don’t blow your budget.

Consider Alternative Venues – A luxurious background setting in a hotel ballroom looks really nice but a simple garden wedding surrounded by loving family members and friends is even nicer. Couples who focus on love instead of money tend to fare better in their marriages later in life.

Build Domestic Team Work – Encourage family members and friends to take part in your wedding preparations. Let them volunteer their talents to help you make this a truly memorable event. This helps to bring you closer to them besides enabling you to cut cost and save some money for your future.

Good luck to me on my wedding budget!!

Dainty?

I've run out of idea on what url address to put for my brand new blog. Not wanting to use my own named, i tried to googled for deardiary.blogspot.com, ladyd.blogspot.com (d - for dzuhriah okay, am not trying to be Princess Diana here), to name a few, and all are taken.

Suddenly it came across my mind to use the word DAINTY - not because i'm beautiful, charming, delicate whatsoever, wakakaka, sila muntah dengan statement ini. I have my own story for this.

The word first came to my vocabulary when i was in form two. I still remember vividly that my then Set II English Class teacher, Mr. Gerard, request us to come out with a word starting with the initial letter of our name. I went blank. All i can think of was all the negative words such as dirty, dead, deaf. I flipped through the dictionary, and found the word dainty which i admired sooo much. Then here it is the born of thedainty.blogspot.com. ;p

Here is some definition on the words dainty from Dictionary.Com if you must know;

–adjective

1.	of delicate beauty; exquisite: a dainty lace handkerchief.

2.	pleasing to the taste and, often, temptingly served or delicate; delicious: dainty pastries.

3.	of delicate discrimination or taste; particular; fastidious: a dainty eater.

4.	overly particular; finicky.

–noun

5.	something delicious to the taste; a delicacy.

*Update*

Hurmm, betul la elcy, *scanning through the above definition, seems like the word dainty is mostly applicable for food. Untuk menyedapkan hati, i googled on another definitions for dainty;

Main Entry:	dainty
Part of Speech:	adjective
Definition:	delicate, fragile, fine
Synonyms:	airy, attractive, beautiful, bonny, charming, choice, comely, cute, darling, delectable, delicious, delightful, diaphanous, elegant, ethereal, exquisite, fair, feeble, frail, graceful, lacy, light, lovely, neat, nice, palatable, petite, pleasing, precious, pretty, rare, recherché, refined, savory, select, soft, subtle, superior, sweet, tasteful, tasty, tender, thin, toothsome, trim, well-made

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Please bear with me while i'm doing everything necessary to reinstate my previously gone blog design, which worth 5 months of effort. Huhuu~~

In the meantime, except for those straightforward url such as elcynthia.blogspot.com, adr3h.blogspot.com, kuireena.blogspot.com which is already on my fingertip, i've lost all of my blog-pal link, hehe, mind you i have short term memory loss. Thus, i highly appreciate if you could leave a little comment on this post so i can put back on your link, okay?